hello
Im 37 weeks and expecting first baby. I'm 41 and fit and healthy with so far a good pregnancy for me and Bubba. We were blessed with this baby following our last frozen embryo under IVF.
At 18 weeks my consultant told me that because I am over 40 that I would likely be induced or c section at 39 weeks to overcome risks of still birth for babies born after 39 weeks in women aged over 40 being the same as a younger mother delivering at 42 weeks.
At the time I said OK but over the following months I have focused on what these options mean and what birth I want. Above all I'm looking for a healthy baby rather than a birth experience. I doubt we will get another chance and we so much want to have our baby with us safely.
Ideally I want to deliver vaginally and am hoping big time for a spontaneous labour pre 39 weeks and will do what I can to bring it on and have a plan for using hypnobirthing techniques and maximising on my home environment until its time to go in to hospital to deliver.....but if baby has not come by 39 weeks I am still struggling with what to do.
What I want is my baby to be delivered without being forced or suffering distress. And for me I believe that if I am in the best place mentally I will help that. What I therefore fear is an induced labour where syntocinon is used with really strong contractions or a lengthy contraction period, where forceps are used and where I may end up after a long period in emergency c section anyway.
I wonder can you help me with your experience. Did you choose c section over induction and how did it go? Did you choose induction and it work well? Did you choose induction and it end up like the one I saw on TV the other night where the contractions were so strong the woman was sent for emergency c section.
It feels like a weight of a decision and I have to make it in next few days and I'm wondering if something might come back to me that helps me get totally clear on what to do.
Thank you x
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Induction or c section to combat age risks
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KangarooKaz · 26/09/2013 13:52
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