Hi
I'm a first time mum, I don't even know how to change a nappy so I know that this is going to be a huge learning curve for me and when I can't sleep I do a lot of reading (I call this my Mum study time) .
I am 30 weeks and I am starting to get really scared of the whole labour thing, what the hell am I doing I've never changed a nappy in my life, and I'm finding the whole thing at the moment very over whelming. I've also just given up my career in management which i've worked very hard over the years to get up the management ladder - so a whole load of change (which I'm normally very good at) I sobbed my heart out the other night (which is not like me at all).
For DP its his second child so he is more confident, and has been trying to reassure me.
We've been invited to a family Christening in Aberdeen (we live in the Brighton area), and DP really wants to go (it his side of the family) I have a number of fears
- baby due 4th april christening 25th May baby at worst case scenario could only be 4 weeks old (could be 6 weeks old depending on when he/she decides to pop in to the world)
- I could still be really sore down there! Plus will we be getting a lot of sleep at this stage
- flying with young buba
- the amount of stuff we've got to take, bottles, travel cot, sterliser, (milk and nappies could get there), buggy (but don't really want expensive bit of kit going in the hold), this is what I can think of off the top of my head
- logistics of feeding from home, to airport, at airport, on aircraft off aircraft at hotel how can I sterlise stuff in a hotel room?
- Waking other hotel guests in the night coz baby crying
- baby being handed around like a batton at the christening as it will be the first time the family (large family as well) will have met him or her
I thought I would have some time to get in to a routine (and get some confidence) before getting on a flight or a really long car journey both of which don't really appeal
Any advise to a very nervous first time mum - to go, not to go, if I go any good hints and tips to make feeding, changing, taking liquid through security (and how do you heat it up at airport or on aircraft) - I feel overwhelmed and a lot of pressure on me, as also the family have changed the date so we can come.
Finally apologies if I've posted this in the wrong place