Naturally I've name-changed for this as I am so incredibly embarrassed!
DD potty trained without any major problems at around 2.5/6 but even now still has occasional accidents where she just leaves it too late to go and then has to rush to the loo. Usually we'll have a day where it happens a couple of times but the rest of the time she's fine.
About a month ago, she did a poo in her knickers which fell out on her best-friend's bedroom floor - luckily her mum is cool and didn't mind, but I did as there's no excuse for that - she goes to this house once a week so it wasn't unfamiliar territory.
Then yesterday we were at a soft play centre and all the kids started pointing at a poo that had been left on one of the mats. Someone put a stool over it until staff could be found to clean it up and the kids were saying it was someone's little brother. About 10 minutes later, DD came out and asked me where the toilet was but said I only needed to show her but didn't need to stay (which is normal now she's at school), but being a place she doesn't know well, I said I'd just wait outside the cubicle.
Anyway, I glanced in to check she was ok and saw poo all over her knickers. She'd done more in the toilet, but it was suddenly very obvious it was her poo in the softplay. I hurriedly washed and dried her knickers before anyone came in and told her not to say anything (which she wouldn't as she was obviously even too embarrassed to tell me). And we got away with it. Of course I feel terrible for not owning up but I just didn't know what to say - it was so humiliating as I'd had no idea it was her when it happened. When we got home I noticed her socks were wet too and she wouldn't say why but I guess she'd wet herself somewhere too despite me constantly asking her if she needs a wee.
I really don't know what to do. The fact that she won't even tell me and just carries on playing is the most worrying part, but I also wonder if this could actually be a medical problem or is just down to laziness.
Please can someone help me do the right thing. I don't want to make it worse but we are always reminding her to go to the loo and she just doesn't. And please don't flame me for not owning up, I still feel terrible about this.
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mumfail · 19/06/2014 10:32
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