I am really at the last tiny end of my wits' end. We started potty training my son when he was 2.5, and it's been a slow process, but seemed to improve enough over time that we kept going. We've cracked the poos, thank goodness, but he still has at least 1 or 2 wee accidents every week, often more, even 2-3 a day at times. We have tried all forms of bribery, sticker charts, ignoring, taking him regularly, leaving him to it, and occasionally get very cross with him despite our best intentions, but we seem stuck where we've been for the past 6 months at least.
He's in full-time nursery, and they're no help - they recognise that he's been potty training for a long time, but just do what we ask them to do (fair enough, I suppose). He's not that bothered by the accidents, which also annoys me. Sometimes I'll ask if he needs to go, he'll say no, then wet himself right after. Argh! He also seems to have a tiny bladder - he drinks next to nothing, but still has huge wees, and if he ever has more than half a child's cup of anything (particularly juice), he will need to do 3 or 4 huge wees at least. Not sure if this is a problem I should get checked with the gp (I loathe going to the gp to be told 'it's nothing'), as it seems rather separate from the accidents. Maybe he has poor sensation in his bladder? He has never been dry for longer than about 5 days, and is occasionally dry overnight, but we won't even consider taking his nappy off at night until he's dry in the day.
I'm worried because I haven't seen a single one of his many friends have a wee accident in a long, long time, but I'm still bringing a couple of changes of clothes every time we leave the house. To my shame, I feel embarrassed when he wets himself when we're with his friends .
Anyone experience something similar, or have any suggestions/thoughts?
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Potty training for 1.5 years and 3.11 yo STILL has accidents?!
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Buttertart · 02/01/2013 15:06
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