Should i just give it up!?

[pigleychez]

Started training DD1 on thursday and in the first 3 days we only had 1 accident, but that was because she was holding it in and not doing anything on the potty. Saturday she really needed a poo after 3 days of not going! and eventually we got one on the potty. Made a huge fuss of her and hoped this was the breakthrough she needed.
Well now we have the opposite!
Shes not holding it in any more but weeing everywhere. Yesterday she did ask for the potty when weeing but didnt make it in time. Today its just been free flowing wee and she poo'd her knickers earlier whilst I saw sorting DD2 out. He knickers are abit baggy meaning thier were little nuggets spread all over the dining room. She seems oblivious as to when she goes.
Part of me is wondering if I should give it up for a while or not? or just crack on and put up with it.

Dont think it would be so bad if i didnt have a clingy 4mth old as well draining me and my mum constantly comparing my DD and my Niece ( her fav!) as her training is going well.

Oh what to do??