Need some advice from anyone who may have experienced anything similar. Had a traumatic birth with little one (forceps/ventous/bad tear etc) and to top that off little one was whisked off to intensive care immediately and was there for a week before we could take him home. Finally got him home two days ago (this is day 3) and my partner is inviting his family round to visit without asking me. We had visitors on the day we brought little one home, visitors twice on day two and just caught him inviting day one visitors round again today. I said I didn't want visitors and would like some quiet time just the three of us for a couple of days, his answer was that I could just go upstairs when people come round! My own mother has given us breathing space and has asked to visit at the weekend which is fine and respectful but I don't know what to do about my partner inviting his family without asking me, he's very close with his family but I want time alone with my new family, baby blues are kicking in and I usually have a good cry in the evening plus my milk is coming in fast so my boobs are very sore etc.
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