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6 week breakdown

(3 Posts)
Rlgcsgflg123 Sun 23-Feb-14 12:34:17

Completely new to this just signed up in moment (actually day) of desperation currently sat in my bed in tears with my littlest kicking away in his bouncer on the floor I would be here all day explaining the reasons that led upto me being in such a state most of which are petty and minor the biggest being the fact my mother in law just turned up unannounced and won't go!!!! She is taking great pleasure in how messy my house is you see she used to make sure the house was tidy once the boys were in bed I can here her telling my partner now!!! I just need some help how did you pick yourselves back up any advice would be great and soon my eldest has a superhero party to attend at 3:30 and I fear I will still be a blubbering wreck by then xxx

TeaAddict235 Fri 21-Mar-14 22:22:48

Just saw this OP, is everything ok? Have you been able to get some peace from your MIL? Do you have a partner who can help? Really sorry to read this so late. Do update us.

3peasinapod Sat 22-Mar-14 04:33:01

Your 6 weeks after having a baby your home is aloud to b messy. Ignore you MIL she needs to back off, or help without judgement we all do things in our own way.
You get back up for your kids and carry on, no one will do it for you. After dd3 I went through depression didn't know it at the time but wasn't a nice place. So wipe the tears and put on your ds superhero costume gringrin your doing great..gringrinwink Hope your feelin better..

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