Dh told me a couple of weeks' ago that he'd been tipped off a rumour was going round our village that he is having an affair. I know this isn't true. Both of us and the 'other woman' (a mutual friend) felt very awkward about this - I know it will have reached the mums at school by now and hate picking up dd1. Anyway, last night dh found that the rumour was started by a man I used to go to church with! He and his wife still go and she is both secrtary to the PCC and chair of the school governors! I am so angry.
We think he started these rumours because he saw our friend waiting for dh outside the pub, she works there and was giving dh a lift home. What this man doesn't know is that her dd plays with our dds, she doesn't know very many people with young children here and sometimes she brings her dd for tea or we meet up and take the dcs out together. She gives dh a lift as a way of saying thank you. In fact I have asked her to be ds' godmother.
His motives can only be malicious. Our friend's dd is 1 and our children are all under five. What did he think would happen if I or our friend's dh had heard these rumours and believed them? The lives of four children could have been ruined. (Btw dh spoke to her dh as soon a she heard and he was furious too, and obviously doesn't believe it.)
I am so angry. I am sure he has told his wife although I don't know if she's repeating it too. I really want to stop him and show him how pathetic he is. I have thought of ringing our parish priest and telling her, notifying the school, and of course going rounfd there and having it out with them - they only live a few doors away. I really need to do something.
But should I really be turing the other cheek? Dh says let it go...(think he intends to have words with him next time they are in the pub...)
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Vicious rumours coming from someone I used to go to church with!
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nearlythree · 28/10/2006 20:32
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