My brother is coming to stay over Chrsitmas and I need some advice on what to think about it all. He was always rather difficult when we were growing up and was frequently moving to the 'next big thing'. About 10 years ago he became 'born again' (for want of a better description) and for a few years was, frankly, unbearable. He spent a lot of time criticising our lovely parents for never challenging their deeply-held Catholic faith and his own church, the 'Exclusive Brethren' were clearly the only right-thinking people on the planet. He has since moved to New Zealand hwere he now evangalises on the street and is leading many church groups. I am obviously pleased that he has found that which makes him so happy and fufilled, but the family schisms which have been created by it worry me. He used to tut when I swore or blashpemed, and was so abusive of other faiths that my mother refuses to have him stay with them over Christmas which is why he, his wife and young son will stay with us. He also has very different parenting views to my own. How should I handle this situation? Should I tackle him about things as they arise or just keep schtum for a quiet life? Has anyone got a similar experience they could share?
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'Born-again' brother coming for Christmas - what to do? (long, sorry)
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Sophiev73 · 24/10/2006 20:52
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