I have written this here rather than in mental health as I don't think my problem is serious enough to warrant actual treatment etc
It's more an emotional health/ personality/ happiness issue that I am wondering how to deal with.
I have an extremely stressful job. I suffer with occasional anxiety although the rest of the time I am happy and settled. I do have a mildly obsessive nature and have tested highly on the scores for highly sensitive personality.
I first noticed a mild anxiety when I had trouble settling my youngest child at school, some six or seven years ago. When I picked him up I had a feeling of dread until I saw he was ok. The rest of the time I was fine.
Now, I cope well with work and enjoy the challenge. When something very upsetting happens as it does in the nature of my job from time to time, it can stay with me and I feel upset and worried for a few days.
I am about to change jobs within my organisation. When I went into work yesterday to do some admin, I was worried I would see my previous boss with whom I have had a minor dispute over leave. When I went in, I felt very very nervous and anxious. I quickly did what I had to and left then at home felt ok.
I know my job helps me to grow and develop personal skills and am overall more confident than before I was in my ft job, but how to deal with these bouts of nervousness, tendency to take things to heart and worry.
Do I just distract myself and try to see the bigger picture, or am I fundamentally unsuited to such a stressful and sometimes distressing job ?
Hoping for guidance as to what to do when I feel like this and how to become less nervous over the longer term.
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Perplexedaschips · 20/08/2014 23:58
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