I think she has become obsessive and using it as escapism but worry that maybe i just don't understand the beauty of blind faith.
I'm finding it more and more draining everytime i see her and the intensity in which she believes. Without fail every conversation will lead to Gods love.
If anyone in her life has a practical problem the solution is always to pray to Our Lady as she will make everything alright. It seems she cannot handle dealing with real life issues so in my opinion uses it as an easy way out. My siblings have needed her help lately and her conclusion is that she will do nothing but ask the lord to take care of it.
For every moment of her waking day she has the God channel on tv, this fills her time in between going to church or sitting in the prayer room she has made.
I catch her crying and when i ask her what is wrong she says she just wants to go back to her maker and can't wait to die. Life seems to pass her by while she fantasises about meeting the love of her life.
Without fail she will constantly judge others and presume they don't have any morals because we are all in awe of the Devil in this day and age.
Daily i will be reminded that i am worshiping the devil as i have sex before marriage and i have to wait for whats coming to me.
She reads books about purgatory and explains how i have to be so careful as does everyone else because God is coming and he will punish.
Fear seems to drive a lot of her thought process and she excels at trying to put the fear into others. I have been told on numerous occasions the end of the world is coming and the signs will be in the sky. Any natural disaster is down to the fact people like me have sex and God is weeping.
I understand that everyone is entititled to their beliefs but am sick to death of her intensity. You cant make a cup of tea without being reminded that our lord was nailed to the cross. It depresses me.
When she meets people i know she will mention God. For instance she told my boyfriend how disgusting it was he didn't pray. For all she knows he could.
My children after being in her company have been filled with prayers and hymns, they are her new little project as everyone else is tired of it.
I just dont want to be in her company anymore, if i sit with her and i say do we have to watch the God chanel she will repkly we could watch St. Theresa or a St. Francis of Assissi film, If i say no i will yet again get another lecture about me really having to start embracing my faith.
I think she is loosing her mind but then i feel bad as perhaps she has just been given a gift of a very strong faith.
( a racist homophobic faith)
I just needed to offload all that as i have just left her house and been told yet again the devil is taking over me as i asked her not to let my son wee in a jug he could use the toilet.
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I cannot cope with my Mothers faith anymore, am i not respecting it enough?
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fairyfly · 22/07/2006 12:18
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