I'm rc, but not devout. Tbh I'm kind of jealous of those who are devout because they don't have any doubts.
I have so many doubts, that I'm paralysed with indecision.
When I was a child I went to a Catholic school, but only went to church spasmodically. In my teens I thought : if there is a God, he knows how I feel. If there isn't a God then it doesn't matter.
I married my husband in a register office because he'd been married before, and the church wasn't important to us at the time.
13 years we tried for a baby, then we conceived through ivf. My dad (who doesn't go to church at all, but claims to be catholic) said "what you are doing is against God, and you will get what you deserve"
I thought she was a gift from God , and we had her christened. I took her
To church every week for five years.
Then my world started to fall apart. I lost my job. Made redundant by the most spiritual man I know, he hugged me and told me he'd look after me, then he got his subordinate to sack me. Incidentally when he sold his company he made it a condition of the sale that my colleague was kept on while I was cast aside.
I got a temp job, was rammed from behind in a car crash, spent weeks in hospital and lost that job. I started to fall behind on my bills etc
I found out I had tumours on three of my organs....the list goes on.
While I was in hospital noone from the church visited, noone missed me.
Then I got thinking, why was all this bad stuff happening while I was going to church?
In all the years I hadn't been practicing things hadn't been so bad, but now...things were just awful.
So I stopped going and things got worse and worse, lost 3 more jobs, unemployed for a year, finally made bankrupt in 2011. Then I was too ashamed to go back.
Then two years ago stated my own cm business, and it's doing okay. We are making our bills
my now 10 year old dd has said she wants to go go church agan, and I took her tonight
The prestigious did look pleased to see me at the end, but all the prayers have changed...I feel like a complete fraud and hypocrite. I don't feel worthy and I don't belong
Is there anyone out there who can talk to me about how I'm feeling and help me understand?
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thankfeckitschrismas · 15/12/2013 21:25
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