Our nanny's grandfather had a stroke last week and it was touch and go for a while (luckily he's ok now). We told dd1 that our nannies GF was very ill in hospital but nothing more. This got us thinking that we need to think how we are going to explain death to her when the right time comes (i.e. when the questions are unavoidable).
She's only 4 but quite bright so will usually ask loads of questions until she is happy that she has got a reasonable answer ("because" has never worked on her!). We are aethists/humanists by belief and I don't feel right talking about heaven/angels/etc as I can't propagate a lie (in my eyes) to her and then give a different explanation down the road.
Anybody faced this - the Humanist website wasn't much good in providing help on this one and I really want to be prepared rather than handle it off the cuff. This issue has the potential to scare her but I want to minimise the impact while giving her something to celebrate.
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Humanist + death what to tell dd1
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lucy01 · 28/02/2006 12:51
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