I am a bit of an emotional mess as I am writing this and am hoping for some advice please.
Our beautiful cat was hit by a car early this morning and sadly died. She really was a lovely cat and my two boys (4 and 2) absolutely adored her - she was the most friendly cat I've ever had and was so good with the children.
I have been upset all morning and my 4 year old clearly knew something had happened. Just now my 2 year old asked where the cat was (he plays with her every day) and I'm afraid I don't think I handled the response very well. I got very emotional (am a bit hormonal at the moment as i also have a 3 week old baby) and I tried to explain that the cat had had to go away somewhere so we couldn't see her. My 2 year old obviously doesnt understand but my 4 year old got very upset and confused. I wanted to try and be honest with him and so then tried to explain that the cat had died but, being so upset myself, I think I have made a bit of a mess with the whole explanation and now wish I had avoided telling them anything until I was a bit less emotional myself.
I really don't know what to say to the boys now and still feel so upset myself. Does anyone have any tips for explaining the death of a pet to young children? I really don't want to upset them any more but feel I need to help my 4 year old understand why his cat isnt here anymore.
Thanks for reading my rambling post and thank you in advance for any advice
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Explaining the death of our beloved cat to the children - any advice?
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Needmorechocolate · 06/06/2013 13:09
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