Not my opinion, but take a look at this thread:
is it just me or is some of this irritating?
I don't want to start a ruck, but tbh some of these observations pissed me off and I may need an antidote!
Personally I don't think one model (SAHM or working mum with childcare) is necessarily better than the other - it depends on the child. I wouldn't dream of making comments to Polina that sparked off this debate along the lines of her child would miss out by not being in Nursery.
But quite frankly, I didn't expect to read responses which implied that:
*a lot of working parents feel guilty
*some are jealous of the bond SAHM's have with their children (what I don't have a bond with mine?)
*that children of SAHMs have more varied and interesting experiences than those in Nursery
*that Nursery makes under 2's aggressive etc etc
*and even a proselytizing teacher 'asking' us to stay at home with pre-schoolers
For the record I've got nothing against SAHMs, and am toying with the idea of giving up my part time job to be one (tired of all the juggling etc - not so easy with two)..but I found it all rather ironic that there was shock at the tactless and innaccurate remarks made by some working parents to Polina, yet some of the respondents to her thread felt that it was okay to take a pot shot back.
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Mums with kids in childcare - you're damaging them!
handlemecarefully · 23/03/2005 08:50
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