Our DS is 18mths so I have come off the pill as we would like to have another. But I'm just wondering if my antipathy is normal.
When I became pregnant with DS I was just filled with excitement because we are not in our first flush of youth and my family has a history of low fertility.
I had a difficult birth but then so do a lot of people, BF didn't work out mainly because DS has a tongue tie and I found the first two months horrendous. I didn't cope well with the lack of sleep and although I loved DS I don't think I bonded with him until a few weeks later. My relationship with DH also suffered as well as we hadn't been married long and were still in newlywed bubble that was violently broken by baby.
Our relationship is now good and I am really enjoying being back at work p/t. I do want another but the thought of morning sickness and the birth and the first few weeks, arrghh and I think if and when I do get that blue double line I'm not going to feel the unmitigated joy I did the first time.
Very long and rambly way of asking AM I NORMAL ?
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Is it normal to have mixed feelings when trying for a second child ?
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rookiemum · 17/09/2007 20:41
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