I went to get my 5 year old son from school today with my 3 year old. 1 year old and my husband stayed at home. As we were walking back I saw that my husband and baby daughter had come to meet us. The kids played a bit on a grassy hill which made me a bit nervous as it is near a road but still fine. I am always nervous of this road as it is the one road we have to cross to get home and it is quite busy with cars driving relatively fast. In the past I have had to manage it with 5 year old, 3 year old walking and 1 year old trying to get out of the buggy. Anyway, my husband I get on alright but with a lot of you did this and you did that and that is your fault etc etc.... which is really detrimental to our quality of life I think. He was saying we should cross the road where it is safer because of how dangerous one spot on the road is. I handed him the baby in a sort of annoyed way because I had my son's school bags and coats and was I suppose annoyed that my husband had added the baby to the dilemma of crossing the road. He wasn't going to take her (this is our childish getting angry tit for tat coming through) so I sort of put her on him so he had to grab her. In this process his mobile fell on the floor (new mobile should I add) and he called me "stupid woman". This is not the first time he has called me names but not for a long time now. So I was angry about this and decided to cross the road somewhere else. I picked up my 3 year old (was also holding bags) and told my 5 year old to go with his Dad (why???? I can't think why I did this other than to have my sulky moment on my own). I turned round again and saw dh crossing road ahead of ds (he had not realised ds was going with him) and almost on the other side of the road. Then saw ds run across road to catch up with him right in front of a car. I screamed his name so loud and for so long that my throat is still hurting almost 5 hours later. The driver must have been very frightened because he stopped and hooted very loud and didn't move for a bit. Ds was crying but luckily not hurt. Dh said that I had turned my back on ds and sent him after him when he was already across the road but this is not true. It all happened so fast I don't really know what happened. Anyway I have more to say but kids have come upstairs and will write more later.
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My stupidity and argument with my husband almost cost my 5 year old his life I cannot think of any way to make myself feel better about what happened
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arabella07 · 05/09/2007 20:08
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