My son is just about to go up into year 4, he will be 9 in february.
Last year was awful, he was put into a class with all the bullies and badly behaved kids in year 3. His work went downhill, he became withdrawn and actually started to HATE school for the first time since he started at the age of 4.
As soon as he found out he would be moving class this year and would be put back with the "nice" kids in his year group he seemed to change completely, he's happier and not bothered about returning to school.
Problem is, one of the prime bullies from Y3 is moving class with him. This kid is my sons best friend one day, bullies him the next. He's a spiteful brat and does his best to turn everyone against DS and then suddenly becomes best mates with him for a day when he decides he wants to come back for tea.
The bullying is normally petty stuff, he tells DS that we have no money and that his mum spends more time and money on him than I do with DS but it did occasionally get out of hand...like the time he took my sons trip money off him and the time he pushed him over and kicked him. He also pushed my youngest DS (6) into the ground cutting his eye open and has even told ME that when my 6 year old starts year 3 he will be in the same playground and is intending to bully him!!!
So as you can imagine, I'm not a great fan of this kid but I'm unsure as to how I should handle it. At this age, is it time to tell DS to sort this stuff out on his own unless it gets out of hand? or do I go in and keep on at the school?
Last year, hardly a week went by that I wasn't in complaining about bullying and I really don't want all that again this year. DS has recently started karate so I'm hoping his increased confidence will help.
But, how would you handle Y4 if the petty bullying continues?
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auntysocial · 03/09/2007 19:03
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