Background: dd1, v shy, 'odd', sensitive etc etc. Started doing ballet on a Saturday morning to try and boost her confidence and socialise a bit more. Seems to have worked, likes going now (took a while), when I spy on her at the end of the lesson she is usually holding hands or chatting to another girl.
They are planning a show and she now says she doesn't want to do it, getting VERY upset.
One matinee, 3 evenings (which end at 10pm when she goes to bed at 7pm , but that is another matter)
Do I say, ok, you don't have to do it - even though all her friends will be?
Or do I 'force' her, thinking that she may like it if she tries?
My gut - and I am big on gut feelings - says "oh ffs you muppet, she is only 4, you will only put her off ballet otherwise"
But I am very soft and may be biased and wrong and she may benefit from the challenge. Or maybe not .
Anyone had experience of this?
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Do I 'force' my sensitive little poppet to do the ballet show that she doesn't want to do?
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oliveoil · 03/09/2007 09:40
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