Hi, please help - I really don't know who to talk to about this. Last night my one year old woke up at 9.45 and dispite my best efforts cried for hours. After tending to him every 30 to 45 minutes I decided to let him cry it out and settle himself which he did at 12.45. The whole process took 3 hours, most of which he spent howling. This morning as I was going to the shops my neighbour and her daughter rushed out and asked me what had happened last night. This left me deeply upset as they were all over him, looking at him very suspiciously commenting about how he didn't seem very happy this morning - as though I had done something to him!
To make matters worse a few days ago he had a nasty accident with his babywalker and has a small bruse under his eye!
I told my husband what happened expecting some support but all he said was 'well if you're going to leave him to cry then what do you expect?'
I know I did the right thing to let him settle himself last night, it was the only way to get him to sleep. However, I feel terribly upset about my neighbours reaction and that they could possibly think something bad had happened. I really don't know what to do.
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AnniePutney · 03/08/2007 11:11
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