please help me!!!! ds is 4.5 and dd is 2.5. they seem to whinge and cry and fight all the time, ususally following me around whingeing and screeching. its really bloody getting me down. i'm finding myself being really horrible and shouting at them because i cant take anymore which then frightens them and makes them cry more and makes me feel guilty then i end up being over nice to them because i feel so bad about how i've shouted at them. i just want some bloody peace. i am becoming the mother i never wanted to be. am hoping its just a stage. i am fed up with dragging my guilt around like a weight round my neck. also am aware that how i am with them shouldnt be dictated to by their behaviour iyswim. i cant be the only one who gets this can i? when they are good they are an absolute delight, really funny and sweet and a joy to be with but the whingeing and upset sends me into a downwards spiral and i cant control my temper. i know its me who has to change but dont know how.
please come and tell me its normal and help me get over this crappy time at home.
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am rapidly losing the will to live with the constant whingeing
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indiasmum · 27/06/2007 12:25
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