I seem to always get an evil health visitor. Today was my first meeting with the new one since having DS2 two weeks ago.
She was totally humourless, DS1 kept interrupting us which was really difficult but she just kept asking the most inane questions...
eg. I mentioned I'd been depressed during the pregnancy, and also before it...she said, 'what kind of depression?' I mean, what kinds are there?
I said I didn't know, it wasn't really defined...
She kept on about DS2's father, irrelevant stuff, like was he going to be involved, and I really didn't want to talk about personal stuff like that in front of DS1...she seemed to be askig purely out of nosiness, there was no reason to ask.
Worst thing is it didn't feel like she really cared about any of it, just wanted to know so she could 'keep an eye on me' or just judge me as a parent.
Well maybe I'm just paranoid. And she told me I should breastfeed in a different position (we're doing fine thanks) and that I shouldn't swing DS2 in my arms to calm him down when he has tummy ache.
('he's too small, it would upset him') ???? It's the only thing that quietens him!
I wish I'd not told her anything about anything now. Witch!!!
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Health visitors...are they always evil??? And can you trust their advice?
flightattendant · 26/06/2007 13:32
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