I have 2 sons (aged 8 and 6), my 8 year old has always been an 'easy' child, sensible, polite, well behaved etc... my youngest has always been a handful, he's the spitting image of his dad, looks like him, talks like him, walks like him, acts like him..seriously it's strange how similar they are.
The thing is his dad no longer lives here but they see him every other weekend, my eldest likes to see him but isnt all that bothered...my youngest idolises him, he worships the ground he walks on...he routinly tells people "you're not as strong as my dad, he's the strongest man in the world, he can do anything..." he genuinly loves him to bits which is nice...
BUT, he is starting to grow up like him, he's cheeky, naughty, rude...all the things his dad was at his age, especially the trouble I'm having with him at school...it's as if we're re-living his dads school days.
What I'm worried about is...is the future set already? will he end up like his dad? stacking shelves in a supermarket...is that his future as he's so like his father?
What are your experiences? Do you believe our kids future is already set?
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bananasmoothie · 17/02/2007 00:17
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