Thanks for the replies in my thread yesterday (punishing my son), I feel there are bigger problems with him that I need to address as punishments just do not work, taking away his things just makes him forget about them and when he does remember (if he see's them) he kicks up a major fuss about getting them back but doesn't behave in order to get them back, it's like he's incapable of being good.
Same with school, I go to the bakery in a morning and get his favourite biscuit, if he's good at school he gets the biscuit on the way home, if not I eat it...last week he went the full week without getting it. He just doesn't seem to understand.
If I shout at him he screams and shouts back at me, if someone more "authoritive" shouts at him he laughs at them, when he's asked why he misbehaves he replies "I forget to be good", it's like nothing gets through to him.
BUT he does have his good points, he loves animals and is always kind etc to them, he has memorised the name of a big selection of dinosaurs (sone of which I don't know!), he's a great artist...he's funny (last night he did a "jack sparrow walk" in his pirate costume complete with the "limp wrist" and girly wiggle etc for my video camera, it was hilarious...it's hard to remember that it's the same kid.
I'm really starting to think ADHD, anyone with experience of this? am I barking up the wrong tree?
How do I go about getting a diagnosis?
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bananasmoothie · 15/02/2007 09:39
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