I'm at a loss for what to do. Last night my dh(? on the d at this point) slapped my 10mo dd's hand when she was picking up a dustbunny she found in the corner. He didn't hit her hard but I was FUMING. WTF?!? She is 10 mo for crying out loud. I am against slapping for any reason whatsoever and, stupid me, had assumed that he would be too. I told him I was totally against spanking and he responded that he was totally for it. His response was "she has to learn" -- learn what? how to hit other people?!?
Now what? He's also overall completely crap with her. When I ask him to watch her (RARELY) he just leaves her to play by herself on the floor while he goes about whatever he was doing. I am not against letting her do her own thing but truly upset that he doesn't have enough interest in her to WANT to play with her...
I think I mostly just needed to rant but wondered if anyone else has experience with conflicting parenting styles/ideas and what you do/did to try to resolve it...
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My parenting style conflicts DRASTICALLY with husband's
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mez656 · 10/11/2006 15:04
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