OK, not sure where I'm going with this so please bear with me.
My eldest boy is nearly 9 and is having a hard time at school for various reasons. Life is very frustrating for him, lives are busy, and there is not much opportunity in his life for free-thinking or independence. We have a small home and he is thrown together with the younger boy a lot of the time and sometimes I fear we are not working very well together as a family
I have a vague idea of trying to help them be more in control of their own lives and
making decisions for day to day life.
I want our family to be more democratic (while allowing for the neccessary needs and duties as a parent to nuture and protect them.)
I want them to develop an ability to listen to, and understand, other people's point
of view.
I'm got a wooly idea of implementing a weekly family meeting, with both boys having the opportunity of devising some 'golden rules' for the house and a chance to them - and us - to air grievances.
Obvious ones such as 'no hitting' respecting privacy, etc spring to mind, but what I want to know is does anyone else do anything similar? Does it have any effects? What sort of rules might you have?
I hope this makes some sense and I really want to hear any ideas and thoughts the court of MN might have!
Thanks in advance, over to you....
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house meeting!! Help me find a format for giving my children some independence
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foulmoonfiend · 29/10/2006 20:09
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