Dh was talking to his mum last night and mentioned that ds (3.9) had played up quite a bit for a couple of days. Honestly, he had been pretty awful by his standards - rude, unresponsive to requests and instructions, aggressive towards dh etc. Anyway, mil (who lives 4 hours away and sees ds maybe 3 times a year so doesn't know him well) asked if we'd thought of getting him checked for adhd! Dh was kind of flabbergasted and said "why would we do that? He's a normal little boy who has phases like any other child." She retorted that she doesn't believe he is! At first I was fuming, but now I've begun to wonder.
Nobody else had ever said this. Ds is very popular with everyone who knows him well. My own parents have told me they think dh and I are raising a lovely little boy and we should be very proud (which we are). Honestly, he's impulsive but will listen on the whole though we sometimes have to work hard on listening. He can be sensitive/ emotional to anger or other strong emotions (hence the occasional aggression), and is not really one for staying in one place for long. He has no focus for some activities (creative), but will concentrate on what interests him for ages. He's bright, articulate, curious about the world around him (he fiddles with anything and everything he can) and is funny, confident, sociable and affectionate. But yes he is impulsive and his curiosity can override everything else. He sleeps brilliantly and always has done. He eats a huge variety of healthy food but cannot sit still for long and we struggle to go out for sit down meals with him. He is definitely fidgety but is on the whole well behaved and polite.
Does he sound normal? Is mil right and should we get him checked out or has she been watching too much Corrie? I heard somewhere that adhd can't be diagnosed before 4 because many pre schoolers display this behaviour but are any of these things red flags?
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"Have you thought about getting him checked for ADHD?"
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LittleLionMansMummy · 28/08/2014 13:41
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