Hi,
My gorgeous toddler is almost 2. She has usually been very affectionate and cheerful, a real mummy's girl too, but recently she has seemed more angry and fraught. For example, she has taken to kicking up a fuss when put into her cot at bedtime and when she wakes up in the morning she shouts and calls "Mummyyyyyyyy!" and looks annoyed when I go in. She wants to do everything "by self!" and even tantrums when I try to put her shoes on or stop her from doing something dangerous.
She seems really annoyed with me.
This has come at a time when I am agonising whether to put her in nursery/childminder or to keep looking after her myself and juggle it all (I work but flexibly). I had pretty much decided that she was too young for nursery and that she needed me to help make sense of the world, but now I wonder if she wants more independence and whether she should go. I am also frightened of giving her to CM as what if they were in the park and she had one of her risk-taking tantrums (i.e perched on top of v. high climbing frame about to hurl herself out of the wrong exit door?). It would be a shared CM so she wouldn't necessarily be able to avert all these disasters!
I guess I just don't really understand this phase. Everything I do seems to be wrong. I've even taught her explicitly not to kick, hit and push, and she is recently enjoying kicking and pushing me saying "mummy push!" etc. and waiting for a reaction.
What am I doing wrong and what should I do? We go to lots of groups etc.
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partyskirt · 21/08/2014 08:39
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