So, I'm 9 weeks pregnant with dc2. Dd will be 21 months when the next one is born. How the hell will I cope? DH was back at work when dd was a week old and I was up and doing everything that I could as soon as I got home. DH is brilliant, he picked up most of the housework and cooked every night. I have done all of the nights with dd who is bf and a co sleeper. We're working on moving her into her cot at the moment but it's early days and she's waking a lot, so I'm extra tired on top of early pregnancy. DH will need to go back to work as he is freelance but we are thinking of using some savings so that he can take a longer break when the new baby is here.
My family are about an hour away. DHs parents are half an hour away but work full time self employed and have elderly parents who rely on them (DHs gps are the other side of the country, so his mum can often be gone for a couple of weeks each month, this then adds pressure to her workload). My mum can't drive and dad runs a business which needs him to be there most of the time. He can take the odd day and of course weekends but they couldn't just pop in or provide regular help.
So, it's basically just me, friends and the lovely church groups I already take dd to. I'm really starting to panic about doing twice the workload with 2 bf'ing, a strong willed toddler, dealing with 2 over night, 2 in nappies etc etc
Can anyone reassure me? How did you get through it? Is there anything I can start doing now to make life better?
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WittgensteinsBunny · 20/08/2014 17:35
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