We are currently having real problems with our DS in the mornings. He is of nursery age and school is on the horizon. The main problem is that he gets absorbed in something, any kind of toy or household object and then gets slower and slower to get dressed and ready to go. Waking up is not a problem, he then has breakfast, then one of us gets him dressed. But, this is getting worse and worse and I am dreading the start of school.
He has toilet-training issues and is currently under a paediatrician, so generally needs to be cleaned in the morning - he does a poo after breakfast. He can refuse to be cleaned for ages. We have tried to teach him to clean himself but he will literally not do it for an hour or more. He will dress himself after that, once he is clean, but oh the delays, the prevarication.....The only two things that work are a lot of joking/distraction and the occasional episode of bawling him out, which does neither of us any good. :(
He does not care one fig about stickers, rewards, prizes etc. Doesn't care about the prospect of having fun at nursery, seeing his friends. Just not bothered. He just wants to do what he wants to do.
The only idea I have is locking his playroom in the mornings, so that he cannot access anything to do. But that is not really the parent that I want to be.
I am feeling a bit sensitive/tearful after this morning's battle, but any constructive comments would be welcome. The only thing that keeeps me going is that I think that DH would be a worse parent than me.
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Struggling with mornings
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BranchingOut · 19/08/2014 10:44
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