My wife is due to give birth to our first very soon. I have finished work and do not plan on going back for the first 9-12 months of the baby's life. Over the last few years I have managed to build up some decent savings, and also my wife has very generous maternity pay - so we decided to take the opportunity and share the first year of the baby's life together at home.
Has anyone else done this? How did it go? Any advice?
The reason I ask is that 99% of the things I read seem to assume that there will only ever be one main carer for the baby (usually the mother) and it is harder to find accounts or advice on what it might be like for two parents sharing the job of bringing up a newborn.
We are planning for my wife to breastfeed, so I realise that she will be spending more time with the baby. I just want to do my best to help out and not do the wrong thing, but also I want to experience the joy and excitement of watching our new child grow and develop.
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Both parents off work for extended period for PFB - Anyone else done this?
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Anticyclone · 28/07/2014 09:33
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