I think HVs and grandparents would file this under 'the consequences of making a rod for your own backs', but am hoping for some advice from Mn. Our son is 2.4 and was fed to sleep till he was maybe a year and a half, after which he would stay awake after his milk, but one of us would lie next to him until he fell asleep (we co-sleep, so he's in our bed). This used to take fifteen or twenty minutes, so not a problem.
Now the period between end of milk/lights out and him actually going to sleep is usually an hour, and can be longer, which is getting beyond a joke. Last night, he was in his bath at seven thirty, lights out by eight, but DH didn't come back downstairs until ten past nine.
He used to have a two hour nap between 12.15 and 2.15 at his childminder's, but we have recently cut this down to one hour, which he seems to need. He is very lively, and gets plenty of exercise, has a consistent, calming bedtime routine of bath, milk, story etc, and will often seem tired when he goes upstairs, but then he tosses and turns and can't seem to switch off.
We would like him to be able to settle to sleep by himself - any thoughts on how this might be done? We're also thinking of moving him into his own room in the near future, and wondering if we should try to train him to self-settle then, or do it first, before the move?
Thanks for any advice.
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How to get toddler to go to sleep alone?
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TalcumPowder · 24/07/2014 09:16
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