This is probably going to sound ridiculous...but I need to get it off my chest.
My daughter is 11 and is going to be in a local musical in the summer. There are a number of other girls in it - who all have an amateur stage school background. My daughter (apart from being in school shows) is completely new to the theatre world - the musical was her first audition - and she was put forward by a teacher at school.
Recently, she has complained of the other kids not liking her and being nasty/making snide remarks etc. She hasn't seemed too bothered and has bonded more with adult members.
However, the other day I took her to an event with the cast and saw first-hand that the other kids were looking her up and down and smirking / walking off when she approached them to say hi / whispering about her etc.
I felt absolutely furious and wanted to say something. When I returned home I ended up in tears about it. I've asked my daughter if she wants to drop out and she has said that she doesn't care about the backbiting because she's got used to it. She doesn't want me to make the director or other adults aware either - incase it gets worse.
I know i sound over the top, but I hate sending her off somewhere where other kids are so mean and I don't think she has done anything to perpertrate the behaviour. She seems determined to go ahead with the show but I feel guilty that its at the expense of her being bullied.
I am pregnant aswell so perhaps I am being a bit of an emotional wreck.
I feel like I am standing back and doing nothing - should I just carry on and let her get on with it ?
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Feeling emotional and like a let down...11 year old daughter being picked on but doesn't want me to say anything. WWYD ?
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jaykay34 · 24/07/2014 07:29
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