I haven't taught DS1 'stranger danger' as statistically, more children are abused by someone they know, and I feel that if you teach them strangers are dangerous then they think once someone isn't a stranger then they're safe - which is worrying.
But due to the eldest brother of one of DS1's classmates being approached by a man claiming to be a football talent scout in the local park, I need to tell him to be wary of strangers, but he doesn't understand.
I have told him that if a stranger talks to him in the park, he is to say he's to say he's not supposed to talk to strangers and then come immediately to tell the adult he's with. He responded that if the stranger went away he wouldn't bother to tell anyone about it.
I told him that in the park, he must stay where I can see him and he is not allowed to go into the trees. He said that he'd still go in the trees but he'd tell me where he was, which to be honest is an improvement but his idea of telling me where he is is yelling "I'm going into the trees!" from halfway across the park and then running off as fast as he can.
He's only 5, and he has no idea that there are people in this world who can hurt or kill little children like him.
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How do you explain 'stranger danger' so they get it without frightening them?
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RachelWatts · 22/07/2014 13:30
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