DS is 2yo and although he eats or at least tries some of everything he is offered at nursery, at home he really only eats a handful of things.
This is mainly my/our fault, as DP and I both work full time we've fallen into a bit of a habit/trap of basically offering the same things. Three times a week, we all get home past 6pm after nursery and its a quick snack for DS then bath and bed.
The other days we always plan to eat together but we're so badly organised with planning and shopping for meals that what invariably happens is 5pm comes round and one of us will just say "shall I just make him some pasta?".
The past few weeks we've decided that we need to get better, so we give him something we know he likes for breakfast and lunch, and then dinner time we'll give him what we have - if he doesn't eat it, then fine, but the plan is NOT to offer an alternative.
We're both happy with this approach. It's not as if we're going to be eating mackeral pate - we'll stick to 'regular' family meals, so stuff that he should like and similar to what he gets at nursery.
But this is the bit we're getting stuck over - if he refuses his main, but then asks for yogurt, what should we do?
My theory has always been - your meal is a main, yogurt and/or fruit, and you can have as much or as little from those things. But am not making an alternative main. I don't like the idea of witholding food as a punishment, nor do I like the idea of giving food as a reward, hence having yogurt/fruit doesn't depend on what you eat for main. I've taken this approach throughout his weaning.
DP says that if we take this approach, DS will just wait for his yogurt and never try anything new. My feeling is that there will be lots of meals that he knows and likes and so he will eat, and then probably won't ask for yogurt. DP is worried that we'll end up with a child who refuses ALL food and will ONLY eat yogurt.
What do others do? We've always been very relaxed around food and never forced DS to eat anything or stay at the table longer that he wanted etc - so this is the first challenge really. I think its more likely to be a battlefield between DP and I, than us and DS :(
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2yo on verge of becoming picky eater - how to deal with/avoid/live with?
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flipflopsonfifthavenue · 19/07/2014 18:04
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