Really struggling with Ds who turns 3 in sept. He is rude - shouts stupid and calls me idiot all the time. Hits his sister, often in situations where I can't quickly separate them or stop him. Saves his worst behaviour for when it is just me and his Dsis and him - often it is int the morning her I simply don't have time to deal with every argument and altercation. DH is not around during kids waking hours so can't really help.
I said to DD this eve that I would try to think of a way to stop DS being so naughty, and she said maybe we should give him back and get a new brother. //sad
I am so frustrated because we moved house and they have toys and and a big garden to play in, and Ds seems to make an effort to disrupt Dd's play or make her cry.
He also responds very badly to being told off, if I raise my voice or use a firm voice he cries and shouts back at me.
I feel like I have caused this bad behaviour somehow, by shouting too much probably.
I am looking for practical advice and strategies I can start with tmw.
Hate star charts but willing to listen to yr success stories and give them a go If they work.
How the hell am I supposed to respond when he is endlessly trying to hurt his sister - it makes me angry! How to tamp down that anger when I can't walk away to calm Down because I have to protect my kids from each other?
Naughty step not terribly effective as it doesn't see a big enough negative consequence of hitting. Just says sorry, I be a good boy, then minutes later it happens again.
My feelings now I've typed this out is that he needs more positive attention from me. I am a bit preoccupied with cooking so maybe less time in the kitchen and more on the floor with him. Just don't want to eat shit nor feed it to them.
Still want yr advice if u have any.
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How to deal with 2.10yo bad behaviour?
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Honesttodog · 18/07/2014 21:22
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