I have realised that my approach to risk management wrt my children is not normal. I am worried that I am going to hinder their independence and make them anxious too.
For example, if I take my 5 year old to a party or a play area, I begin to panic if I can't see her for a few seconds. A few weeks ago she was at a party and at the end, my friend and I realised we couldn't see our two girls. My friend wasn't too worried but I was running around like a maniac. The two of them were in the loo together and my friend said 'oh I wasn't worried, I knew they must've been here somewhere' and it made me realise I must have looked like a loon.
I feel as though I should let my 10 year old walk to school by herself but I just can't.
Every time I read about a child abduction I start to over worry again. I recently read something about the Beaumont children in Australia and I just cannot imagine how their parents have coped with losing all their three children.
I know this is not a healthy way to behave though. Am I the only one like this??
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Paranoid about my children's safety......how to change?
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lottieandmia · 23/04/2014 22:00
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