I had an assessment done on myself and my then new boyfriend back in July as I wasn't aware of his criminal history and someone called social services.
I have 3 kids.
Checks on kids all came back fine. No problems but it brought up a lot of stuff in my past dating 2004-2006 from where I was a young mum in violent relationship. This was my eldest 2s dad and I left and sorted my life out. I have a 2 yr old with another guy and he's now demanding to see this assessment. I feel it's very personal to me, it's not just about his son. It's my whole life in black and white. Will social services give him a copy of the report if he requests? He has PR, is he entitled to know everything in the report. He knows social services have closed the case and they have no concerns. My 2 yr old dad is listed as a risk factor in the report due to issues with him threatening to not return DS. I've told him the outcome but don't feel he needs to read everything about me that's in the report. His son is not at risk from myself and never will be.
Also the relationship with that boyfriend was over when I found out the truth about his history. I certainly had no idea when I was dating him about his background.
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Eternity84 · 07/11/2013 20:49
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