So me and the lesser half have had a stinking row. Basically my little boy iS 4 months old and my sil sticks her finger in his mouth every time she sees him and says that she sooths him. Now she has only met him 5 times (tonight was the fifth) but very time has really grated on my nerves, I can't stand it and it gets my heckles up. I just find it disgusting, my baby has reflux so already has problems with his gut and her little boy is always ill so I jut think get your chuffing finger out of his mouth. Me and her do not have the best I relationships and she is extremely testing. Everything I have asks sky oh to say something and every time he says 'oh did she, I didn't see'. After last time he assured me e would say something. Then tonight she does it in front of us. I looked at him and he giggled,effing giggled like a stupid fucking schoolgirl because he knew it was winding me up. He then said 'oh you want to be careful chewing her fingers, you don't know where they've been', to which she relied 'they're clean'. Now because we don't have the best relationship and she's a nutter I have refrained from
Saying anything as I am too tired to be tactful and in any case think its his job. On the way home we argued about this, at first he told me that if it bothers me to say something, then it was that I was only kicking off because it was her, me and him have previously done it and finally I wouldn't tell my family if they were doing it. Oh and not forgetting that if I do say anything he'll start being an arse with my family. Logics never been that dickheads strong point.
I just think, I do it occasionally and I'm his mum so my germs are ok and so are his, my family don't do it and if they do do anything I don't like I have balls enough to say and also just know that it bothers me and so address the issue.
I would just like to know...am I over reacting or would anyone else be upset with the finger sticking?
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Tash28 · 14/09/2013 21:56
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