Hello ladies......please help, I really need some sound advice.....
we have a 12yr old DD & 9yr old twins DD/DS. All they do is argue, tell tales, don't do as asked, back chat, wind each other up......what do we do to stop it? Right now I am hating life and I dread everyday! Meal times are my DP telling them off.....elbows off the table, eat with mouth closed, don't talk with food in mouth, stop talking cos u not eating......on & on, it drives me mad then DP starts shouting as all he's doin is telling everyone off & he's had a hard day at work! I do understand that but I just tell them as I go like a little reminder but I do tell them off for things I think matter......we have just moved and our neighbour sits right next to our fence and all she can hear is us telling our DC off, she brought me some flowers round over the weekend and in chatting she slipped in that she used to be a health visitor then as we said buy she suggested Sunday school for them all
In public they are perfect, good reports, my parents say they are exceptional and we should be proud as do our friends.....when we are at friends & their DC are being naughty our DC look gobsmacked so they do know right from wrong......its just at home? Any ideas???
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Help.....DC argue ALL the time!!!!
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surfingbabies · 15/07/2013 11:05
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