DD has never taken an interest in DS at all. He's now six months, and though she will play with me while I'm playing with him, she won't acknowledge him directly. She's never held or kissed him, and will only touch him briefly. I'm beginning to wonder if this will actually pass at all - I thought she'd have warmed to him by now.
We frequently tell and show DD that we love her. However there are things that have unavoidably had to change: she's never been a good sleeper, and while previously she was in with me, now DH goes to her (DS is a poor sleeper too [groan] and as he's BF I can't manage both of them if any of us are to sleep).
At bedtime I BF DS, then DD likes me to snuggle her to sleep, then DS usually wakes up again! At least she gets a bit if me then. It means I don't get started on any housework or paid work until gone 8 though.
DS is a rather clingy baby and doesn't nap much, so he demands my attention a lot of the time. TBH when a do have a few minutes spare I tend to try and get a job done rather than go and play with DD, then by the time I've done it DS is usually after me again. It makes me feel like I'm failing on all counts.
Does anyone have any advice about how I can encourage DD to show some affection towards her brother? I realise that she's had her nose pushed out. Perhaps I should focus on her needs more than worrying about this at this point.
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How can I encourage 3yo DD to interact with 6mo DS?
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INeedThatForkOff · 16/05/2013 19:12
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