I feel ungrateful to moan, as all I've ever wanted to be meet a lovely guy, get married & have happy, healthy children, but.... Am currently 21 weeks pregnant, with a 21 month old DS, go to work 2 days pw, then on the other 3 days do all cooking/cleaning/washing/chores/ childcare - so although I work hard, I know my week isn't as tough as many Mums that I read about. But, I am just finding it all so hard at the moment. I feel like I haven't been happy for months!
I'm constantly exhausted & over emotional, have no patience with my DS or DH, always snapping at both, and to top it all, then feel over-whelmed with guilt about (mainly) being a bad mother and (occasionally) about being a bad wife, and resolve to do better/ work harder at both. Especially as my 21m old DS is playing up a bit at the moment - hitting/ hyperactive/ not listening to a word I say etc. - probably totally usual (?) for this age, but is not helping waylay the guilt that I'm not spending enough "quality" time with him, so am the reason that he is acting up.
And that's not taking into account the fact I then feel selfish for craving some "me" time...
To cap it all, this is before the new baby has even arrived! I'm sure that'll bring a whole new state of exhaustion, so was hoping to get some (relative) rest now. Am finding it very hard to feel positive at the moment.
I really hope that this is all totally normal? Does anyone have any advice for feeling a bit less guilty all the time, and dealing with an energetic toddler during pregnancy?
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Pregnant, constantly exhausted & feel like such a bad mum to my toddler!
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3Caramel · 16/05/2013 13:32
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