This is not a burning question but I would appreciate thoughts.
DH and I have been together 12 years.
My DH split from his exDW 13 years ago when their DD was 5. ExDw gave her wedding and engagement rings to DH in a brown envelope with a request that they are given to DD on her 18th birthday. Split was not amicable and affected DD in particular quite badly. Her 18th birthday is coming up in a few months and I am starting to wonder if giving her the rings is such a good idea. It may well stir up old feelings and remind her of things that she may not wish to remember on a day that is meant to be a celebration. It also seems odd to me that exDW wants DH to give the rings rather than herself. My thought is to give DD the rings when she is 18 as mother wished but not necessarily to do it on her actual birthday. Or to ask exDW if she still wants us to do this. It's possible she has forgotten although I know she has a good memory - she is a bit odd and still sends DH "anniversary" cards on what "would have been" their 10th wedding anniversary etc.
Any thoughts?
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cherrybakewall · 16/05/2013 07:46
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