My God it's true. My DS is nearly 8mo. I HATED the period 6 weeks - 3 months with a passion. I consciously remember this. DS was tongue tied (diagnosed 3 months) so feeds took FOREVER. As an active person I resented being chained to the sofa for the whole of the day. I am RUBBISH with no sleep too - he was awful at the sleeping business, still is. Another late diagnosis - reflux - and I hope we're beginning to make inroads.
Despite all of this I looked on with envy as I saw all these Mums with their little babies (ok - not that mine is grown up) at a Mum and Babies showing of a film I went to. DS is really getting to old but I saw the film anyway and there they were. I remember the cinema was the only time I really relaxed and enjoyed DS feeding and sleeping on me - it helped with the film and the popcorn - and the noise of blockbusting action films (batman, the bourne legacy) really put him to sleep.
And I saw these mums and i realised how much I actually missed it. DS is also rejectig the breast completely now, so it's time to say good bye to bfing (I still pump every day but he is pretty much 99.9% formula fed). So I am sad.
I can see why people do it all again. Oh dear.I wish I could turn back the clock and tell my uptight self to just ENJOY it and GO WITH THE FLOW a bit more. I guess I'll have to remember that for DC2 (he he, don't tell my DP I just said that).
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Cosmo89 · 01/02/2013 19:10
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