I am writing regarding DD1 (6) and myself, as I would very much appreciate some input on how to change my parenting of her.
DH and I have both done great at school and are academics and career people. DD1 has just been categorized as "slow" by her teacher - both at comprehending and finishing tasks. She doesn't have any developmental issues and is a happy girl, sweet to her little sister, has good friends etc. She just doesn't have a competitive bone in her body and doesn't care for finishing first, being best and isn't overly smart.
I tell myself that the main thing is that she is happy and that it doesn't matter how she does at school and I DO believe it. But at the same time I get so frustrated when helping out with her homework and she doesn't "get" it, to the point where she has started asking me, why it is so important to me that she does well at school. I fear I am putting too much weight on performance already and denting her self esteem, but find it hard to know what to do.
Please, does anyone have any advice?
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NewDKmum · 18/01/2013 20:16
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