My ds who is just 4 keeps bursting into fake tears when he doesn't get his way. Its all waa waa scream moan please I want waa etc. Its loud and i can't handle it. It seems an automated response and i want it to stop! Usually Im trying to explain why he can't have chocolate two mins before dinner but he's so busy making a fuss that he can't hear what Im saying.
My natural reaction to such behaviour is to want him to shut up and Im afraid I've said that a few times. I find that a very rude thing to say although i know from a previous thread on here that a lot of people think its ok to say to kids, i don't.
A lot of the time its about minor things like what cup he wants which drives me crazy because i don't feel its worth making a fuss about although he obviously does. I find it rather stupid which is where is probably comes clear that i just don't understand kids! Im a bit crap like that.
So earlier it was because i was on the phone and he asked for juice. They know not to talk to me when Im on the phone but he usually does anyway and in fairness he didn't realise i was on it. He asked for juice and i said i was on the phone and to wait. He then burst into the fake crying really loudly and i couldn't continue my quiet important conversation until he was quiet. I shouted at him so not great and he quietened down a bit.
So how would you handle it? I can't always just leave the room but i can't be next to that attention seeking i want my own way about something unimportant noise! Sending him to his room on the step seems like i would be saying that he's not allowed to express his own feelings so i don't usually do that.
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how would you handle this - tantrum related
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fuckadoodlepoopoo · 07/01/2013 13:29
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