Ds1 is 3.5 and i feel like all i ever do is shout and i hate it there has to be a better way to deal with things. I want shouting to be a last resort not the normal way of dealing with things. He drives me bankers with the refusing to put his coat on to go to nursery etc. Running away when we're on our way home and refusing to come back even though we're near a busy road.
Last night felt like the last straw i was bathing him and his brother (ds2 is 1)and they were both screaming blue murder and i just wanted to scream "shut the f up" I didn't but i so wanted to. I feel awful i don't want him thinking i don't love him. How can i be better at this.
Sorry if this is a bit rambling but i feel like the worst mum in the world right now and if i don't learn to deal with stuff now how am i going to cope when i have two teenagers that i will have given all sorts of horrible issues. .
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ok, i'm a crap mum, help me get back on the right track please.
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ThisIsNotWhatIWasAfter · 06/12/2012 10:31
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