My friend does. He is nearly three, and socially very awkward and shy. She is a sahm who has made absolutely sure to take him to groups, to have him play with a lot of children regularly (they have a good circle of friends) so it's not that he's not used to other adults and children.
He is really 'bright', knows numbers and letters though I think can't read as such. His speech is great, but I notice that a lot of it is repeating what others say. He can communicate his needs with speech though.
Whenever he meets anyone - new or not - he cries and wants to run away to 'safety' - his room, or home. He doesn't play with other children. She has had the hv round ro assess him, and was told that he is just very very shy, that he might grow up to have problems because of it, and that she should expect him to be a loner.
I should mention, he has a younger brother, about a year old.
Now this is not bad but she is worried about him.
Have any of you any experience, words of wisdom, or references to help her?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
For free parenting resources please check out the Early Years Alliance's Family Corner.
Parenting
Do you have a very very shy 3-yr-old?
5 replies
Pruneau · 25/03/2006 11:36
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.