I moved to a new area last August when I was pregnant. Now I have a 3 year old and a new baby. I have started to go to mother and toddler groups and know a handful of people to have a chat with but not well enough to even do coffee let alone go out for an evening of drinks.
Whilst I know it's not unusual to have zero social life when you have a young baby, I'd still like to know that I might gain one in the future. Going out to dinner with DH is all very nice but I have to admit, I really miss going out for drinks in female company.
I'm not likely to go back to work for another few years. What are the best avenues for really getting to know other mothers in a social capacity. At toddler groups - I find it diffciult to get beyond (or get other people beyond) that pilot stage. Would it be easier to make strong friendships if I volunteered for soemthing, like the NCT, or if I did something completely unrealted to children like an evening class or joined another voluntary organisation.
I've always managed to make friends easily before but for some reason, when wearing the mummy mask, I feel like a completely different person, and find it difficult to project my true personality.
I'd appreciate any advice from anyone who has moved to a new area with children. Thanks
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What's the best way to make proper friends in a new area?
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Loy · 24/03/2006 08:42
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