DH and I are in talks (again) anout having a third child. We have decided that we want a third now. The problem is DD she keeps saying that she doesnt want another brother or sister. Do you think she is just saying this, as I am really frightened of pushing her away. She is 9. (DS is 19months) I have told her that she will still be ny little girl no matter what.
We are also moving back to the Uk in 7 months so things will be changoing for the two of them. I have already started to put her name down for all the clubs etc she wants to continue doing in the UK so that she doesnt miss out on anything.
When I was PG with DS she wasnt happy about it until she found out I was having a boy so I know that she is worried about me having a girl even though she wont admit it. How would you handle it as I dont think its fair on DH and I not to have a third if that is what we want because of DD , but I also dont think it fair on her if she is really against the idea how can I reassure her...
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luckylady · 11/01/2006 07:11
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